Love is…….
It is love when…….
Your roomate cleans up the room because she knows that you are expecting a guest to sleep over tonight.
Your housemates collect your clothes when it’s dry
Your housemate buys a bigger packet of food so that she can share it with you
Your neighbor parks his car and leaves enough space for you to park your car
Your favorite nasi lemak seller gives you extra ikan bilis sambal in your nasi lemak because he knows you suka makan pedas
Your friend makes an extra effort to call or sms you to ask if you need a ride
Your friend who is really tired decides to stay back and keep you company
Your friend who has already eaten accompanies you while you have your meal
Your friend takes an effort to sms you to ask how are you or replies your sms
Someone decides to join you and gives you a helping hand so that you can get your job done
Your friend tells you of for your stupid acts
Your friend does not allow you to go on doing the wrong things because she knows
it’s not right
Very often we take others and their thoughtful acts for granted. We are so
pampered sometimes that we forget to thank and appreciate people for the little kind acts. We become angry when our friends could not find time to do these little favors for us, as if it is their responsibility to pamper us………..
Sigh…..recently I was out with some people, there were many….about 40 of us, all from different campuses. We went out as a group and we were suppose to know each other. I asked 3 fellas to help me carry some stuff and the 3 fellas did help out. It was alot to carry and guess what, the other 36 just looked without taking any initiative to help the other 3 fellas.
I was kindda sad actually, i wondered what was actually in these people’s head. Where’s the initiative? What’s so difficult about lifting your finger to lighten other people’s burden? That was not the first incident, i have witness many more of such instances in different occasions…..i just wonder what has become of our humanity? We have become a selfish bunch of people who only care about ourselves and nothing else……..so sad lah
