Friends?
As much as we enjoy being social beings, there are times when you just want to share some private moments with certain individuals. But then again, sometimes people just don’t understand that you want to take a break and would like to spend private moments with just that someone. Perhaps it is jealousy? Perhaps the fear that you don’t like them anymore? I don’t know.
Personally, I would not feel offended if my friend decides to spend private moments with other friends instead of me. I feel everyone should have the freedom to choose how they want to spend their time and with whom they want to spend it with.Of course sometimes I would feel abit hurt but then again, the hurt is not permenant because I love my friend and i do not own my friend, therefore she / he is not obligated to be committed to me only.
I think people should not get angry with their friends just because they choose to spend their time with others. It would be really selfish for us to control our friends life and force them to always be sensitive towards our feelings and needs only.Forgetting the fact that our friends have other friends to who needs some love and care.
Sigh….I’m just so sad to see that some people just can’t do the things they really like doing because they are afriad that their friends would be hurt if they don’t count them in……….
